When a woman basks in the Sun's warmth, it charges her feminine essence and create a balance between the masculine and feminine energies within her. This balance can lead to feelings of inner peace, harmony, and a deeper connection with her self.
Just as the feminine Moon guides a women through her cycles like a loving mother, The sun holds a women in his warmth masculine embrace. His deep level of calm and protectiveness holds a safe sacred space for women to shine their own inner beauty and radiate the deep level of love all women have. When she does this naked she fully surrenders and opens up to receive his warmth and deep conscious love.
The same can be for her when she is in the arms of a man in his depth of awareness and purely there with her, holding her letting her know she is safe to be her however she may be. He loves her, he sees the beauty of her mind, her soul and her body. She knows he is strong enough to handle her in her wild feminine nature because he is grounded in the depth of his masculine consciousness.
“When a women learns how to nourish a romance with her own body, to unite with it from the inside, alive in all her senses, she exudes a breathtakingly feminine quality that transforms the atmosphere around her.” - Diana Richardson
This is true self love, to love your mind, soul and body enough to be vulnerable to be seen and felt. To allow the suns warmth to wash over you to cleanse you, to charge you. How ever so many women lose the love they have for themselves as there body changes and their sexual feminine essence gets covered over by the false rigidity of a more masculine style of being, de polarizing her feminine core.
From this lack of self love as she grows older she will chase this love from her children or grandchildren seeking to fill her cup from an external supply rather then the un ending supply of deep nourishing love inside her own well. This leads her to become the all devouring mother, where the world is bad and dangerous and she is safety, she is all they ever need (picture the witch from Rapunzel movie).
How then besides sun backing in the nude if you don’t have access to a private sunny spot then can you find other ways to build self love and allow your feminine energy to flow?
Sun bake in togs or clothed if need be.
Dance
Better yet dance naked and own your beauty.
Rub sweet almond oils over yourself it has a beautiful sensual texture and use some essential oils (do this as a dance to some music and make it sensual)
Let your partner see you in the nude, in your full goddess beauty. He will love it, if you could see yourself through your partners eyes you would have nothing but the deepest love for yourself.
Stand in front of the mirror without clothes or if this is too vulnerable just yet start with the least amount and look yourself in the eyes and repeat “I love you (your name) 3 or more times. Do this with meaning, feel what comes up for you and write it down so you can reflect on this. This is done daily and said with love.
Write a love letter to yourself.
These are just some simple steps that you can do to build love for yourself and nourish your inner feminine. If you desire to dive further into these practices and cultivating them on a deeper level where you learn to open your heart and live a life full of love, then book a discovery call if you would like to discuss this further with myself (James) or Dannyelle. Or if your ready to dive deep into self love and nourishing your divine feminine then we have programs where I hold you in a safe grounding masculine energy or Dannyelle who will provide you with a nurturing feminine.
So good! As someone who’s struggled with body changes (to the point of wanting surgery etc) this is a beautiful reminder. And beautifully written article